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The Handwritten Note

May 21, 2013 By Karen Main 6 Comments

A handwritten note is such a simple and yet powerful way to connect with others.   Don’t get me wrong I love to text, email and even post on people’s facebook walls.  They are all fun, easy and convenient ways to send messages. A handwritten note, however,is charming, and I have been a lucky receiver lately.

Imagine, here is little ole me going about my day, heading out to collect, what lately seems like the endless pile of bills and “important papers”. Then I see it, the pretty handwritten envelope.  Yes, someone had not only written beautiful words on a card for me they also took the time to put the card in an envelope, address it,  attach a stamp and mail it.  Now I was tempted to rip that envelope open as I stood in the middle of the lawn. To not take the opportunity to capture the true essence of this gesture and then I stopped and decided to savour the moment.  I wandered in, made a cup of tea and sat down to gently open it.

You see sisterly intuition was at work this day.  My insightful sister, Deb, had sent me a card full of beautiful words of encouragement and it had arrived on the actual day I was preparing to publish my first ever blog post.    Now although my blog topic was cloaked in secrecy Deb instinctively knew exactly what I would need to hear.  The card was inspirational and perfectly timed.   I stared at those beautiful handwritten words and then courageously stood up ready to publish.

 

Handwriting

Handwritten note from my sister

 

As I came in late last night  I collected the mail and once again I noticed a smaller sized envelope tucked in with the bills.   Mmmm what could it be, I l was intrigued.   You see I have an incredible group of friends who truly inspire me with their extreme thoughtfulness.    Last week we had a little get together when one friend actually took a group of us on a surprise outing to celebrate her birthday.  If that was not enough generosity  she had also sent me a card full of delicious handwritten words to thank me for celebrating with her.  This is one of  the breathtaking moments that I seek to capture, the power behind the handwritten words.

 

Card from my friend handwritten inside

Card from my friend handwritten inside

 

My most profound note came this morning as I busily packed lunch boxes and checked for library bags.  I noticed  a piece of paper on the bench.  It was folded in half with the words Mum The Best Mum.  I opened it and as I began to read my heart ached.  The purple sparkly pen was delivering me a powerful message from my beautiful daughter, Phoenix.  She was describing how grown up she feels now and asked me to remember she is not a baby anymore.  Wow, I do know at 8 years old she is not a baby and yet somehow I choose to still see that vulnerable little bundle and I want to protect her like the day she was born.  Yet to see those words written there in her pretty gel pen I knew it was time to take a step back.

Mum the Best Mum from my daughter

Mum the Best Mum from my daughter

 

Oh the power of the handwritten note.

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Comments

  1. Kelly says

    May 22, 2013 at 7:02 am

    Funny. I’ve been on the receiving end of a hand written note from you once and I was so appreciative! It came at a time when the view of someone other than myself was very much needed! On the day, I felt it actually meant even more because of the time, preparation, thought and intent that had to go into getting that message to me! Love a handwritten note!

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    • Karen says

      May 22, 2013 at 9:27 am

      Kelly looks like we will be keeping the mail man busy.

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  2. Deb says

    May 22, 2013 at 9:36 am

    I love shopping for cards to thank, inspire and congratulate those that I care about as in the process it encourages me.

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    • Karen says

      May 22, 2013 at 2:33 pm

      Deb there is pleasure in the giving as well. Thanks for sending your thoughts my way.

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  3. Mo says

    May 24, 2013 at 1:38 am

    Karen, I’m also constantly on the lookout for cards to send those “just because I’m thinking of you” notes. I really love postcards for this purpose too. You are so right, there is nothing like finding a handwritten note in your mail – a real day brightener!

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    • Karen Main says

      May 26, 2013 at 3:49 pm

      Mo I am always looking for cards, that was how I found Liv Lane, I was looking at her cards.

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