It’s no secret that I lean more toward being a night owl. In fact, I’ve spent years convinced that I should wait for my late night second wind to get my best work done. Hence I’ve spent a few decades working and studying while the house sleeps, often awake into the wee hours of the […]
Why language is more important than you realise
When people first come to me for coaching they’re often feeling like a passenger in their own life journey. Each day their precious time, energy and attention is gobbled away, leaving them in an exhausted heap. They crawl to bed only to suffer through a restless sleep, before waking and beginning the dance all over again. They […]
How to be giving, without exhausting yourself
Everyday I meet many more gorgeous women who are…. Super Loving. Extra Caring. Really prone to putting everyone else first. They’re committing to more, even when they’re collapsing in a heap from exhaustion most nights. They’re pushing beyond the warning signs, ignoring the wisdom offered by their bodies, and soldiering on even when nagging illness […]
Why you should stop when everything is in chaos
If there is one thing I’ve learnt over the years it’s how unhealthy and unproductive I become when I’m burnt out and overwhelmed. So why would I even consider pushing myself to this point? Well this week it went something like this… I was already depleted from a busy few weeks preparing and delivering a variety of workshops […]
Want to make a move on your dreams? Ask yourself this question.
I’ve got some pretty full days right now. My time is spread across several projects and my diary has become a scribbled mess. And the best bit, I’m busy and it all feels good. It feels good because each day I know my energies are moving me closer to a long-held dream. My actions all count […]
What is enough?
What is enough? I began asking myself this question a few years back. It all began with a particularly wonky morning. I had written a to do list the length of my arm, booked clients for most of the morning and the cupboards were bare, the washing baskets full and the dog was staring longingly at his lead. Super-human […]
Busy! What to do when you have more to do than time to do it.
We’ve all had one of those days. Washing is piled high and it’s pouring with rain outside. The kids have parties and you promised to bake cupcakes. Work has called needing you to extend your shift… and you’ve remembered hubby needs his suit dry cleaned before the weekend. It’s not even 9am and already you’re pushing aside […]