What is enough? I began asking myself this question a few years back. It all began with a particularly wonky morning. I had written a to do list the length of my arm, booked clients for most of the morning and the cupboards were bare, the washing baskets full and the dog was staring longingly at his lead. Super-human […]
Why you do want to plan for lots of this in your day
I had a little extra time so I decided to wait and watch the kids wandering into school. As I stood alone at the gate my son unexpectedly looked back. When he saw me looking over an enormous smile beamed across his face. He waved, I waved, he turned and kept walking. Then he turned again……we both waved. Twice more he turned […]
How to feel good and make more time for play
I went on strike once. There was no fan fair or major announcement. I went for quiet, passive, annoyance. I was not making a bed, clearing a dish or picking up a shoe for the entire day. I wanted to show my family what life would be like if I stopped tidying up all day. Did I […]
From frustration to connection and using Desire as my guide?
I struggled in the door my hands full of shopping and headed straight for the kitchen, both kids trailing along behind me. As I filled cupboards they unpacked school bags. Chatter filled the air as they thrust school notices at me and explained uneaten fruit now rolling across the bench. My thoughts were racing…..What will I make for […]
This is My Story……. So Far
With the new year upon us and with so many new readers I felt it was time for a get to know ME chat as I share more of my story. It was during my early twenties that I learnt that when I worked hard, said yes a lot and sacrificed myself to please those […]
How to fill your life with possibility
It had been a productive morning and I was ready for a nice cuppa. I flopped down on the sofa and looked around the room and then I saw it….. A room filled with souvenirs from long ago holidays, stuffed with cushions, candles and vases from years ago and squeezed in around it family photos and […]
It was ten years ago……
It was ten years ago Almost to this very day That my world became brighter As you finally made your way A blink and a flutter Two gorgeous brown eyes A new life in this world To my delicious, delight I was transfixed in that moment Lost in the pool of your eyes Holding you, my precious girl As you gave out your first […]





